Who saw it!
Do you know what the main assumption of naturalism in art was? It was the faithful imitation of reality based on precise observation, devoid of unnecessary evaluation or interpretation. And I think that for me sex is an example of such art. And porn is absolutely not a place that would have anything in common with naturalism. There is no place for sweat, panting, pimples on the butt, stretch marks, birthmarks, scars and hair (both pubic and hair that falls on the face, as well as hair that has to be taken out of the mouth during sex). In porn you will not see diversity and asymmetry (for example, when it comes to the size of breasts or the appearance of nipples). There is no room for farts or "fart-like" sounds made by the vagina . In that world, there is no sex during menstruation (and yet it is normal if two people do not have a problem with it). No one after intercourse toddles to the bathroom in the tension that the secretions will run down their legs and dirty the floor. No one reaches for the toilet paper to quickly wipe off the semen.
Porn robots
If I believed that porn was really about sex, I would think that the people involved were robots. They don’t take pee breaks, they don’t pee after sex (which would be great for promoting healthy habits, like preventing cystitis !). They also don’t take drinking breaks, which they should, considering the effort they put into sex. They never change their minds during the fun, even when it borders on pushing boundaries. They don’t talk, yet they think the same way, because they move from one game to another without a word, and the changes in position are never awkward. For this reason, they don’t need the safe words that are so important in real life. The penis is always on full alert. And of course, other “accidents at work” don’t happen (falling out of bed, cramps, head butting). Oh, I almost forgot. Third parties can be an additional observer, but never pets.
The Malice of Inanimate Things
Usually taking your pants off is no big deal. Squeak, pop, one leg, the other, and off you go. Turned inside out, but off in less than 30 seconds. UNLESS you're undressing for sexual intercourse. Then your pants get stuck to your ankles and you can't get free. Same thing with your bra clasp - suddenly it's impossible and you have to take the straps off and then move the clasp to the front like you're just starting out with this piece of clothing. And then there's the marks from your underwear - have you ever seen marks like that in a porn movie? Or socks, which are sometimes nice to just leave on your feet. Well, maybe the actors in porn movies never get cold feet...
Problems at the start
In normal life, emotions such as embarrassment related to nudity can naturally arise . This is nothing strange, especially when the relationship between two people is "fresh". There can also be a slight stress, due to which even putting on a condom can be a bit clumsy and lead to the loss of an erection. I don't know if "clumsy" is the right word - I mean that this activity may not be done very efficiently. It happens. Similarly with applying lubricant (or even having to use it). Oh, and what is important - no one laughs in porn, and there is definitely no tickling. Focus and full specificity.
Defective package
Pornographic films serve us a defective package of behaviors, reactions and activities. How good it is that in our own bedroom we can be ourselves. Not suck in our stomachs, not fake orgasms (and still be happy with sex!). Not wear full make-up if we don't feel like it. And we may not feel like it at all!
...For that we have each other and the whole package. And even an extra package, because it includes flirtation, love, soul connection, warm hugs, and sometimes even releasing tears right after intercourse. Isn't that beautiful?
Created at: 13/08/2022
Updated at: 13/08/2022
